Tuesday, 26 August 2014

Family Trip: Germany (Stuttgart, Bad Boll, and Ulm)

This trip was over the August bank holiday in the UK.  I took an extra vacation day so we could return Tuesday night.  Our flight from Birmingham to Stuttgart was at 7 am Saturday morning.  Kristine and I were up at 3:30, the girls were up at 4, and we were on the road by 4:20.  Not before several family members asked me paranoid questions about whether we had all five passports (we did).

A returning secondee wrote on his blog about the difference between flying out of British airports when you're going anywhere besides the US.  I was not prepared for the number of people waiting to check in.  In hindsight it makes sense.  United's one flight out of Birmingham is the one to Newark.  Flybe has multiple flights from Birmingham to cities in Europe and the British Isles.  We parked by 5:15, and made it through security by 6:15.  Looking at the massive line behind us when we checked our bags, I think arriving much later would have put us in trouble.  As it was, we grabbed some food from Boots, and found some empty seats in the hallway to sit and eat while we waited to find out which gate we would board from.



Although I don't have an accompanying photo, my favorite part of the flight to Stuttgart was these words from the gate attendant: Ladies and gentlemen, we are ready to begin boarding.  We would like to ask families traveling with young children to board first.  It made up for finding out from the flight attendant that paying extra for reserved seats didn't mean anything.  It actually didn't because we had our pick of seats on the plane since families got on first.

We stayed in a little village called Bad Boll, about a half hour south-east of Stuttgart.  Evidently many village names in the area begin with "Bad."  The connotation is when the town has some special trait related to health.  Bad Boll has a health resort because the water in its spring contains a high concentration of special minerals.


Our host family for the trip, the Siegels, are another friendship of Kristine's that has stood the test of time and distance.  Claudia spent time in West Lafayette as an exchange student when she and Kristine were in high school.  The language differences made for an interesting trip.  Claudia speaks excellent English.  Winfried speaks passable English but often looks to Claudia for help translating.  Kristine and I speak almost no German.  Our kids speak no German, and their kids speak no English.  Credit to both sets of kids for quickly finding activities that they could share without much common language:  Making friendship bracelets


Working on puzzles

Playing tag (naturally, boy chases girls)


Going to the local playground

where Elise conquered the climbing wall (and as my editor, vetoed a picture of something between a jump and a fall during her first attempt)


And playing blockflote (okay, so that last one may have had more adult enjoyment from the Collins family, but it was awfully fun).


Over the course of our stay, the kids began experimenting with German and English.  Childhood mimicry skills provided some not trivial amusement.  I can't transcribe what our girls were doing with German, but here's what I heard from Sophia and Jonathan with English.  Elise's "Ready, steady, go!" became Jonathan's "Ready, skeadygo."  Or "They're not ahead of us." became "aheadubus."  Charis transcribed this joke that Elise came up with about what could happen when English and German speakers try to communicate.


Another highlight from our first day was when Winfried offered us coffee.  Claudia's question: Do you like your coffee strong?  Because you know, Americans tend to drink their coffee much weaker than German.  For a coffee lover like Kristine, it doesn't get much better than being asked if you can handle strong coffee.  Which, for the record, was excellent.  Snide remark about seeking decent coffee in an island nation obsessed with tea goes here.

Sunday morning we took the train from Eislingen, the nearest train station, to Ulm.  Elise was excited to learn that this route includes the steepest grade in Germany.  She thought it would be a mountain train like when we went up Snowdon.  It was anticlimactic because she kept asking where the steep mountain was, only to find out that we were done climbing and now descending to Ulm.  She forgave me when I took all the kids up to the second story on the train.


Clare and Charis found mini-seats that could also fold down and offer a hard surface.



We were in Ulm to visit the cathedral.  Our walk from the train station to the cathedral took us past this memorial to Albert Einstein's birthplace.


The cathedral is an extremely impressive work of Gothic architecture.  Naturally when sitting in the courtyard, one's mind turns toward the things that Gothic architecture was intended to facilitate: thoughts of the heavens, meditating on things of eternal significance.


Or maybe not.  After all, some things just cannot compete with the thrill of chasing pigeons.


The girls did take a break from chasing pigeons when this clock played at about 20 minutes past the hour.  The tune was very hand bell-ish in its sound - perhaps in keeping with the bells above the clock.  The bird on the pendulum is the symbol for the city of Ulm.


We did make it inside the cathedral.  In general, the adults were excited to walk around, gaze, and take pictures.






The cathedral towers had stone carvings of various figures from German history.  This photo of Luther is a shout out to my mother and sister.


The children collectively had less patience for hanging around inside.  I got this shot of Clare shortly after we entered, which was also shortly before she became bored.


We were able to get this family photo inside the cathedral.  Yes, that's a UConn husky on my sweatshirt.  Thanks, Daniel.


The cathedral is the tallest of its kind in the world.  161 m.  There are steps that let you climb 140 m.  Claudia graciously kept Clare and Sophia in the courtyard while the rest of us went.  It felt a bit like a neverending stairway.  You ascend circular steps in a narrow tower.  When passing people who are descending, you both exhale to make yourself as thin as possible while you squeeze past each other.  Crowded staircase aside, this climb was another exploration of topics which don't need much language to communicate.  The excitement that Elise, Charis and Jonathan shared at being up so high is one of them.  We paused about a third of the way up to look down at the courtyard.  The open spaces were quite well barricaded to prevent people from falling through them.  Elise suggested the thought experiment of a mouse that wasn't clever enough to stay on the inside of the wall, and wound up falling off into the courtyard.  It was a funny story when we were only 200 steps up the stairway and enjoying this view of the city farm safely behind bars.


We kept going up to the room above the bells in the tower.  This room had the winch system and basket that was used to haul rocks from the ground while building the cathedral.  The large round structure in the middle had plastic windows cut into it that let you look down the tower.  Lots of kids were scrambling to get up onto the structure, look through the window, and exclaim about how high they were.  The excitement didn't need much translation.  The blonde head dangling to the left is Charis.


I thought the bell tower level was the top of the steps.  I was wrong.  Elise found another staircase that said "Way up."  That took us even further up the steeple.  Excitement at the height was starting to wear off for adults and kids.  Except for Charis.  She cheerfully reminded us about the careless mouse.  The originator of the thought experiment was not amused.


I thought this level was the top of the steps.  I was wrong again.  There was yet another tower.  At this point most of us were ready to head down.  Charis pipes up that she wants to go up the last tower.  This is the same kid who convinced her older sister to go down the vertical slide at the Bowood adventure playground.  I'm beginning to think she's got a daredevil streak hidden under that gentle demeanor.  Naturally the rest of us weren't going to be shamed by the youngest person in the party.  Up the steps we went.


We were past excitement into endurance with that climb.  The tower was narrower than anything lower in the cathedral.  It was also the most crowded with people going both up and down.  Passing in the stairway was a gentle game of chicken.  Whomever stopped first picked their spot - the inside or the outside wall, and then the other party had to keep moving.  On the way up, the people coming down stopped on the inside and we squeezed past on the outside wall.  On the way down we stopped on the outside to let the folks climbing up squeeze past.  Until we got close to the bottom and there was a decent (5 or 6) sized party who stopped against the wall.  We had to squeeze past on the inside.  Meaning my size 14 shoes had to find the stone on steps that were tapered very narrowly.  In theory they were supposed to do this without also finding any feet of the people standing still.  In practice?  Well, I tried to step gently.


One side effect of the narrow stairways was the echoing voices.  At one point, a fellow coming up heard me speaking to Elise in English.  When I said "Danke" to him for letting us past, he replied "You're welcome."

768 steps to ascend the 141 m of the stairway.  768 steps to descend back to the courtyard.  The girls were exhausted, right?  Nope.  They were ready to chase pigeons again.  We had to tear them away to walk back to the train station.


During some down time that evening, my blog editor proofread the post about our trip to Staten Island.



The highlight of Monday (and probably of the whole trip for the girls) was removal of a hornet's nest from inside the wall of Claudia and Winfried's flat.  The hornets have been in the wall for a while.  Since they are a protected species, the American response of spraying poison isn't allowed.  Several months of being told by various local authorities to not worry, do nothing, and give the hornets time to go away, finally hit a threshold when the hornets began chewing through the wood of the wall.  It turned out that Wala, a local manufacturer of homeopathic remedies and beauty products, is low on hornets this year.  They happily sent a crew to relocate the nest from the house for free because they wanted the poison from the stingers of the worker bees.  Their first step was to connect a vacuum to one side of the carrier box for the hornets, and then run another tube from the box up to the nest.  They taped an extension rod to the end of the tube so they could control how they pointed it at the hornets.


The spectators started the event on the couch several feet away from the window.  It didn't take them long to move closer to the action.


Mission accomplished - most of the hornets are successfully inside inside the box and ready to move to their new home.


Relocation included taking the hornet larva as well.  One of the larva graciously hatched while this fellow showed us the hornets' nest.  Resulting in lots of excited comments about cute baby hornets.  Go figure.

In the afternoon we drove to the adjacent village to go for a hike.  The plan was to make it to the Deutsches Haus.


The plan quickly began to change when a certain 3 yr old became recalcitrant because (a) the hike was up a hill, and (b) she wanted to be at a playground.  In her defense, the hill was pretty steep.


She was more cheerful further up the hill when she got to look at an interesting plant with Sophia.


At this point most of the kids were pretty tired.  We decided that reaching this wooden bench at a fork in the road was a good stopping point to have snacks and turn around.  I think we made it between 1 and 2 km up the hill.


The recalcitrant 3 yr old walked for a little way right when we turned around.


She hitched a ride for most of the way.  Which meant we were able to stay together a bit better as a group.

I forgave her recalcitrance when we encountered this dead beetle and she exclaimed "Daddy, it doesn't have batteries!"




Then, on seeing this slug, she said that "It's moving because it has batteries."


We spent Tuesday exploring more of the Bad Boll village.  One highlight was visiting the local butcher.  The varieties of meat, and in particular the varieties of sausage, that we had with Claudia and Winfried was impressive.  Seeing the even greater variety available from the butcher was downright mind-boggling.  We got to take this picture because he was as excited about having Americans visit his shop as we were to visit.


The other highlight was finding several streets all named after composers.  The girls have learned most of what they know about these composers from a CD series called Beethoven's Wig.  If you enjoy satirical music, check out this version of Beethoven's Moonlight Sonata (it's what we were watching before we flew to Germany).






More than a few tears were shed amongst both sets of children when we said goodbye at the airport.  We told them we were happy for the friendship that formed enough during our four days in Germany for the goodbye to be sad, even if we weren't happy that they were crying.



It was raining heavily in Stuttgart when we boarded the plane.  Then the plane climbed through the clouds and treated us to a lovely sunset for our 90 minute flight back to Birmingham.


Monday, 25 August 2014

All I Want for Christmas ...



In deference to the temperatures here in England that make it feel like October when it's still August.



Sunday, 10 August 2014

2014 Home Leave: Indianapolis and West Lafayette

The adventures that our family had getting from Derby to Indianapolis are in my blog post about the missing passport.  Fortunately for our collective sanity, that was about as exciting as our two weeks got.  The rest of our trip, while full of activities, was thankfully free of adventure until Kristine and I had our encounter with the snake.

Trips like this are tough because there's always more people to see than there are hours available to visit.  That said, it was good to spend time on our home turf, connect with a few people, and let the girls try to spread some of their English accents.  Some of the highlights (heavy on photos; light on text) are below.

I'd prepared myself before we flew back to make sure I drove on the correct side of the road.  This was a long-standing joke in my family whenever we visited the US from Kenya: how many times would someone drive on the opposite side of the road and who would be the first person to correct them?  I didn't have any problems with that part of re-entry.  I wasn't prepared for how shocked I was at the sheer size of the roads.  This was my view on the drive to West Lafayette after Kristine and the girls picked me up at the airport.



I was still in shock 24 hours later as I drove back to West Lafayette after a day in the office and dinner with Jay, Lori, and Karl Seppanen.


Clare shared a bedroom with Kristine and I.  We made her a nest in the closet.


While they did a (little) bit of sleeping there, I think the main purpose of Elise and Charis's room was to assemble rainbow loom trinkets.  I lost count of how many they made for good-natured friends and family.



At one point Charis got a little frustrated with a particular rainbow loom design she was working on.  She and I decompressed together by having her try out my new dulcimer hammers.



Unlike Melbourne, the playground at the local elementary school is open for public use when the school is closed.  It was well situated for us to take advantage of: just over 3 blocks away so close enough to walk to, and far enough away that getting there and playing was a good way to burn off energy.  Elise channeled her inner gymnast.


Clare showcased her "I'm up to something" smile.


One of our traditions with this playground involves some form of grownups chasing children.  My dad got into this by acting out the Three Billy Goats Gruff.


We warned the girls before we left that Indiana would be considerably warmer than Melbourne.  We also told them this meant we could do a fair bit of outdoor swimming.  As it turned out, it was actually warmer in Melbourne than it was in Indiana for most of our trip.  That did not deter the girls from holding us to our promise to take them swimming.  We visited the water park at Prophetstown State Park several times.  To their credit, they handled the somewhat brisk water very well.



Although that didn't stop Charis and Clare from spending time warming up in between swims.




One of the traditions in Kristine's family is to work on puzzles during vacations.  Her dad has long taken very seriously the importance of passing this tradition on to our children.


Did I mention that we promised the girls it would be warm and sunny in Indiana?  And we managed to be in West Lafayette for the rain of the century.


 Which not everyone enjoyed watching from the back porch.


My parents drove down from Minneapolis to visit us for the weekend.  2 days of driving.  2 days of visiting.  I'm grateful for that gift.


One of our errands was to check in on our house, return some items we'd decided we didn't need in the UK, and pick up a few things we'd left.  We found the house well cared for and cleaner than most days we lived in it.  The renters also left an incredibly gracious note for us on the dining room table.  Major area of concern diffused there.


I took advantage of the visit to the house to make a stop at Pat's Philly Pretzels.  I endure the praise of doughnuts that my Facebook friends occasionally engage in.  I'm going to miss the breakfast cobs from the Derby office when we leave.  But these pretzels are pretty much my favorite snack.  Except maybe the meat samosas that we sometimes get in Derby.


The girls piled affection on "Miss Bethany" Warner, whom we met for dinner one night in Indianapolis.


The Pope joined us the next evening when we met the Fosters at Bucca di Beppo.



And the Fosters graciously let us swim in their (not so warm) pool on our last full day in Indiana.


Sunday the 10th of August saw us back at the airport and on our return flight to England.  We booked a 7 hour layover in Newark so we could connect with family.  More on that here.  Here we are enjoying the train between terminals in Newark.  All together, all happy, and with five passports.


So long, USA.  It was a good (if full) trip.


Footnote # 1: This, my friends, is a road.



Footnote #2: We made it to Melbourne without trouble.  Everyone except me slept at least a little bit on the flight.  I grabbed a couple hours of sleep when we got home, then went into the office for a bit.  I had to run an errand in Melbourne when I got home, so took Elise and Charis with me.  Here's what they thought of being jet lagged.


Staten Island (the trip that almost wasn't)

Our trip from Indianapolis to Birmingham included a layover in Newark.  It was a cheerful flight out of Indy.  Charis and Clare had activities to keep them busy.  The woman sitting next to Elise was a retired elementary school teacher with grandchildren close to Elise's age.  She graciously kept a running conversation with Elise through the flight.


As a result of cheerfully occupied daughters, Kristine got a rare opportunity to knit in flight.



We decided to take an early flight out of Indianapolis to give us extra time for our layover in Newark.  We planned to rent a car, drive to the Staten Island ferry, and rendezvous with Kristine's brother Matt (who would come over from Manhattan) and my brothers Daniel and Deion (who would drive down from Hartford).  Our flight landed at noon.  We needed to be back at the airport by 5 for our 7 pm flight to Birmingham.  I budgeted an hour to get the rental car, and 30 minutes to get to and from Staten Island.  That gave us 3 hours to hang out.  Not much.  But it's the only 3 hours we'll get for the next 12 months.

I called this the trip that almost wasn't because our rather circuitous route to get to the ferry took an hour instead of 30 minutes.  I thought from the map on the wall at the Avis office that it would be straightforward.  I also thought that Staten Island would be small and that there would be clear signs from the interstate.  Then the woman at the Avis gate "just ran out of maps" and we mistakenly believed the mobile phone GPS that told us to turn right off the interstate (this after we were already frazzled from going across the bridge thinking we had tolls covered and finding out they wanted $13!!).


Through a series of phone calls with Matt and Daniel, we finally got ourselves moving in the right direction.  The phone told us to get back on the interstate and drive to the Manhattan side of the ferry route.  We put the confused app out of its misery by turning it off.  Sure enough, once we were going north from the interstate we ran into water, signs to the ferry, our family, and the throngs of people who were all gathered to celebrate us seeing each other.


We exchanged quick greetings, elbowed our way onto the ferry, and crossed the harbor uneventfully.  During our 30 minutes in Manhattan, we saw the Freedom Tower from a distance.


Daniel played photo tag with the girls.


And we did the obligatory "family in NYC" photo (if you're a sibling who keeps track of these things, yes - that's a smile on my face).



After a half hour, it was time to elbow through the throngs of people to get back onto the ferry.  We stood on the outside deck for the return trip.  The girls got to see the Statue of Liberty (they had seen it from the plane when we landed in Newark).


I was impressed when I saw a sailboat making its way through the harbor.


I was even more impressed when I saw the jet skiers (look for the white wake in the water just to the left of the boat).



We had a few minutes after we got off the ferry, so we walked down the boardwalk to the 9/11 memorial.



Then it was time for us to get in the car, Matt and Ashley to take the ferry back to Manhattan, and Deion and Daniel to drive back to Hartford.  Thankfully, the phone correctly got us to the interstate.  We backtracked from there to return the car, take the air train to the terminal, and board the plane and enjoy a lovely sunset on our flight to Birmingham.


Friday, 8 August 2014

Anniversary Date (and snake scare)

Kristine's parents graciously agreed to watch the girls for an afternoon, night, and morning while we celebrated our anniversary together.  We spent the afternoon at the Tippecanoe Battlefield park.  The park is the site of a battle in the early 1800's between two Shawnee brothers, Tecumseh and the Prophet, and the US military forces led by William Henry Harrison.  I hadn't realized this until we went there, but it's also the site of the annual Indiana Fiddler's Gathering (something I've learned about since getting into folk music, and which I have friends who attend regularly, but still remains on my to-do list).

Kristine and I spent some time hiking here when we were dating while students at Purdue.  It was fun to go back, although the park, like the rest of West Lafayette, has changed significantly since I left in 1999.  If the girls had been with us, the picture of the eagle might have included one or more of us copying its spread-wings pose.


We took a leisurely walk along the creek.  In and out was just over 4 miles.


This was our first encounter with Indiana wildlife on our hike.  It was also our least exciting.  More on the exciting encounter later.


One mental adjustment we continually made during our time in the US this summer was getting used to how big everything is.  This bridge is a case in point.  


I'll grant that the bridge is for I-65, so it's not entirely fair to compare it with one of the stone bridges we'd go through on a hike around Melbourne (like this one, for example).


It's still massive though.


Our agenda for the hike was pretty open.  The plan was to walk for a while, then turn around to head back and grab dinner.  Turning around ended up getting dictated by this point where the path crossed the creek.  Sandals on our feet plus desire to keep feet dry = go no further.


Our trip to the US began with the adventure of the missing passport.  It contained an extremely full 10 days of visiting friends in Indianapolis, family in West Lafayette, running errands in Indianapolis, and me getting three days of work in the office.  It was refreshing to have a peaceful place to walk and talk with Kristine.


Not entirely refreshing.  We found this little fellow lying on the path on our way back.  Not just on the path.  Right in the middle of the path.  Kristine assured me that snakes are rarely, if ever, poisonous in Indiana, and that venomous snake bites is an extremely uncommon topic in her healthcare circles.  That didn't do anything to calm my pulse.  Flashing through my mind were all the warnings about mambas, cobras, and puff adders from my time in Kenya (including one particularly hair-raising time when a snake about this size poked its head out of a basket in our garage that I was just getting ready to reach into).  I also read the Sugar Creek Gang books as a kid.  I know about the copperheads that the gang encountered along Sugar Creek in Indiana. We encountered a snake next to a creek in Indiana.  Hence, my mind said snake = bad.  If my Kenyan training had held true, I probably would have grabbed a stick and killed the dude.  Instead, we both stepped around and moved on.  Actually, Kristine stepped around because she could squeeze under the bushes blocking the edge of the path here.  I had to step over the tail because the left side of the path didn't have space for my 6'5" frame.  This resulted in even further elevation to my heart rate, although it did subside once we were well on our way.  My father-in-law looked at the photo later.  He said the snake was a Racer, and that they're not aggressive or poisonous.


Things not captured on photo: excellent dinner at the Parthenon restaurant and lovely stay at the Pheasant Inn B&B in Fowler (it baffles me that there are no longer any B&B's in Lafayette or West Lafayette with the amount of student and family traffic around the university and athletic events, but there you go).  Friday morning we drove back into West Lafayette and grabbed coffee at the Vienna Cafe just off campus.  This was a favorite jaunt of ours as students when we were dating.  Even though we've been to West Lafayette to see Kristine's parents many times during our 14 years of marriage, we rarely spend time around the Purdue campus.  This was a fun trip down memory lane.