Thursday, 17 July 2014

Hammered Dulcimer Musings about Patterns and Perfectionism

I'll confess up front that this isn't a blog post about travels in the UK.  It is a blog post about the chances I've had since moving here to share my hammered dulcimer with Elise and Charis.


The hammered dulcimer has been much more present in our home in England.  It sits in the front living room instead of the guest bedroom in the basement (where I had to move it a couple years ago when Clare got mobile).  I've been able to play it more frequently as a result; both in the evenings after the girls go to bed, and during the day when they are around.  Because I've been playing more, I've also spent more time looking for dulcimer music.  I made a playlist on YouTube a couple months ago.  Part of my morning routine for a while included listening to it, which meant that the girls would get to (have to) listen to it as well when they joined me downstairs.  A few weeks ago, Elise and Charis both started asking if I would teach them to play the dulcimer.  

The chance to teach them was interesting for me on several different levels.  When I talk with people about the hammered dulcimer, it's not uncommon for them to interpret from my description that the dulcimer is a difficult instrument to play.  The notes go from low to high on all three bridges, but the low and high notes vary depending on the bridge.  Some notes are available on all three bridges (e.g., the A above middle C), and some notes are only available on one bridge (e.g., middle C, F-natural above middle C, or B-flat above middle C).  You can play the same note in 2, sometimes 3 different locations depending on which bridge you use.  So you have to choose which location you choose to play the note based on the other notes in the tune.  It's my fault for articulating this in an intimidating way, because people have said "Oh, I don't think I could memorize so many different locations."  


My response is that you don't have to memorize every string to note relationship, which would be 66 notes on my dulcimer.  All you have to do is learn the patterns that the strings are laid out on.  For instance, you play a do-re-mi scale by starting on a black pair of strings, playing each pair of string to the next higher black pair, come back to your starting point but on the left side of the bridge, and play each pair of white strings up the left side of the bridge to the black ones again.  My dulcimer has 8 black pairs of strings.  So to play it, you need to learn which note each black pair of strings corresponds with.  That reduces your memorization load from 66 notes to 8.  Once you know the pattern, it becomes really easy to figure out where on the dulcimer you want to be.  


This approach to learning an instrument has worked well for me.  Now I get a chance to try it out on my daughters.  I was also interested to see how the girls approached an instrument they've seen me play, but which they haven't done much on.  Charis, in particular, likes to be sure that she knows something solid before she'll do it in front of another person (this kid steadfastly refused to mimic words when I read to her at bedtime, and then suddenly started talking over the span of a few days).  It takes work for our family to internalize the whole concept of practicing so you learn something instead of doing it perfectly right away.  I sympathize with her as both a recovering perfectionist and as someone who works in an industry that's permeated with the "do it right the first time or you're a buffoon" ideology.

So my experiment was to find out whether (a) I could give the girls a pattern to follow from which they'd be able to play music they're familiar with from playing it on piano, listening to me play, or singing it as a family; and (b) could the learning curve be something we enjoyed climbing together instead of a barrier symbolizing imperfection.

I started by explaining how to play the octave scale from black string to black strings across a bridge. Being a good systems engineer, I drew something that almost looked like a block diagram.  Then I showed them the do-re-mi scale.


No luck.  To their credit, they didn't freeze, nor did they throw the diagram back in my face with accompanying words about what a bad idea it was (remember my ideological brainwashing about getting it right the first time).  But it was clear that the approach didn't work with either daughter.  So for round 2, I kept the octave relationship.  Instead of putting the diagram on a piece of paper on the music stand, I put it on a paper that went under the strings at the top of the treble bridge.  Then instead of giving them music to play, I just asked them to find numbers.  Play the 1.  Now play the 4.  Play the 8.  You get the idea.


Somewhat to my surprise, and much to my delight, the concept clicked.  We moved on to Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star.  They both know this song on the piano, so the learning task was to translate the sound they know should be there onto the dulcimer.  Here's what the instructions look like.


Part of the reason for using numbers instead of notes goes back to the idea of patterns.  We started on the C above middle C because that's where I could fit the paper around the bridge.  But nothing about the song requires playing it there.  So they can learn the song, and then play it from any black pair of strings at the beginning of an octave.  Some day I might tell them that this is called transposing.  And maybe on a different day I'll tell them that doing this can help them be comfortable playing music from memory instead of from sheet music.  But those are meta-learning objectives they don't need to know about until they read this blog and find out I had an ulterior motive.

Once again, to my delight, the approach clicked for both girls.  Charis was able to the song with appropriate rhythm using a hammer in her right hand.  Elise took it a step further by playing the notes on the left side of the bridge (anything 5 through 8) with her left hammer.  They were both able to move on and begin playing other songs that are more complicated.  Here's a clip of Charis playing Jump Up, which is a Dan Zanes song that is staple of our family singing times.


And here's Clare accompanying me on Amazing Grace.



I enjoyed going through this with the girls.  I've grown to love the sound of the dulcimer.  It was a treat to hear them making music on it.  I'm thrilled that the apparent complexity didn't turn into a frozen sense of "It's too hard; I can't do it!"  It was fun to watch them climb the learning curve from educational music (Twinkle, Twinkle) to personally selected music (Jump Up and Kesh Jig).  And it gave me an excuse to further explore a couple different lines of thought I've been pondering for a while now.  As a instrumentalist, I'm terrible at improvising because I freeze when someone says "Here's a chord chart.  Play and have fun."  I've circled around this notion of patterns as an entry point to improvising for a while.  I also see it in the systems engineering discipline world of my day job, which is grappling with the problem of how to discipline and repeatability (patterns) while still encouraging innovation and new ways of thinking (transposing and improvisation).  Some day I might pull those thoughts together coherently enough for a conference paper.  Until then, I'll enjoy playing hammered dulcimer with my girls.


Sunday, 29 June 2014

It's not about Marmite, but if it were ...

I've taken a good bit of grief about our move to the UK.  For some reason, my friends and family think the move had to do solely with getting better access to Marmite.  It might have to do with a Facebook record that occasionally shows photos like this,


Or captures these conversations from our home

5yo: Daddy, I think I would like to go to the UK.
Me: Why is that?
5yo: Because they have swimming pools.
8yo: And?
5yo: And we get to go on an airplane.
8yo: And?
5yo: And the airplane has a TV in the seat.
8yo: And?
5yo: What else?
8yo: They have Marmite!

Maybe it's because this was one of the first photos I posted after we landed in the UK.



I've consistently stated that we didn't move to the UK just because of Marmite.  That said, I do wonder sometimes what would have happened if we did.  For example, it might mean that I've come to appreciate that great bastion of British culture, Dr. Who, because of how it can be used to portray the Marmite / Vegemite discussion.



I could write a haiku about Marmite.

Marmite on toasted
English muffin with butter.
The perfect breakfast.

I could adapt a favorite gospel hymn.

Oh the deep, deep love of Marmite,
'Tis so lovely spread on toast.
When it's eaten with my breakfast,
It's the part I love the most.
Oh, how lovely is my Marmite;
Mummy says it looks like tar,
But there's nothing quite so mah'velous
As a fresh, unopened jar!


Finally, I might re-write a bit of Lord of the Rings film dialogue between Merry and Pippin.



What's that?
That, my friend, is a tub.
It comes in tubs?  I'm getting one!

Saturday, 21 June 2014

Family Walk (and other rambles): Calke Abbey

I've been wanting to put something up about Calke Abbey for a while now.  The estate is just a couple of miles away from our home in Melbourne.  This proximity, combined with easy access because of our National Trust membership, means that we've been there many times.  We've gradually accumulated enough photos to have something blog-able.

There's a herd of deer living on the grounds of the estate.  Evidently they are very cost-effective lawn mowers.

They also double as excellent topics of attention for squirly girls whose father needs to get out of the house for a while.



The grounds also have a decent number of sheep (as do pretty much any green spaces in Derbyshire). Evidently the lambing season at Calke Abbey has been an attraction for quite a while.  Several of the herds were recently sold to a private farmer, but there were enough for Kristine to take the girls earlier this year.



The proximity of Calke to Melbourne and Derby makes it a good place to meet for play dates.  This was during Easter break when we met up with some friends from St. Giles church in Normanton.


The Oldfields (whom we visited in Swindon at Easter) came to visit us for this past weekend.  We spent a good bit of the afternoon on the grounds with a picnic lunch and ambling walk around part of the estate.  Here's the route from RunKeeper.


Typical of England's schizophrenic weather, the previous week had switched back and forth between sun and rain.  The skies were clear and sunny enough when we left the house that Kristine asked the girls to bring along sun hats.  Elise and Charis took advantage of the chance to model the pouting poses they learned from the Gorgeous Georgians at Warwick Castle.





The normal first photo from any walk is of the three girls running off ahead.  That didn't happen this time.  Clare decided she wanted to start the walk riding on Kristine's back.  Elise and Charis were otherwise occupied chatting with the Oldfields.  The walk started across the field in about the middle of the trees below.



We stopped to get a shot of the girls on a fallen tree.  This is what happens when you tell your children to frown on 3, and one of them takes you seriously.



The girls got some hero poses in on the same tree.







They found a standing tree with a hollow trunk that all of them could fit inside.



A couple younger folks (ahem, Clare ...) started running out of steam shortly before the 1 mile mark into the hike.  John graciously treated us to ice cream.  As it turns out, ice cream is one of the foods that our US-trained taste buds have struggled to adapt to what's available in the UK.  The ice cream we ate here, which came from a local dairy farm, got high marks from all of us.




The ice cream gave Clare enough energy that she spent a reasonable amount of time after our break walking.  After that she was on my shoulders.



Early in the hike we had an unfortunate encounter between Clare and some stinging nettles.  John pointed out the duckweed antidote that usually grows near nettles.  Charis decided to preempt a potential nettles encounter by carrying this particular (large) leaf with her for the last half of the walk.



By the last half of the hike, Carol and Elise were ahead of the rest of us, cheerfully singing (songs that I couldn't hear because I was bringing up the rear with a certain 3 yr old on my shoulders).  I caught up with them here because they went exploring on a path that made them turn around.



We came up to this stone wall near the end of the hike.  I counted nine girls milling around the wall, and one man trying to line them up for a photo.  The girls were all Elise's age or younger.  I watched him with a mixture of admiration for taking that many young children out for a walk alone, and relief that it was him instead of me.  As the girls ran away from the wall and into the forest, I heard him utter the magic words to get them (mostly) under control: "Girls, let's go back to the cars so we can have a snack."  This was followed by shrieks of "Snacks!" and a stampede across the field.  The man's head is visible just above Elise's left foot.  The girls he was corralling are all in front of him along the path.



We got a picture of the girls on the same wall.  Clare's expression brings to mind a recent conversation I had with a neighbor on our street as I walked with the girls to the post office.

Friendly neighbor (to Clare): You're a mischievous one! I can tell in your face.
Looks at me: She's the troublemaker of the three, isn't she?
Me (smiling): That's right.



We made our way out of the woods and back across the field to the cars.


Nothing tops off a hard day's walk (or, in Clare's case, ride on parental backs and shoulders), than a refreshing swig of water out of a Marmite themed cycling bottle.  More on Marmite and its role in our move to the UK is here.



Sunday, 15 June 2014

Family Walk: Father's Day at Dove Dale

After going out of town in early May when we travelled to Wales, there's been enough going on near home (various birthday parties for the girls, a band concert for me) that we largely stayed around Melbourne since then.  That, plus the unpredictable weather with a string of rainy weekends didn't really incentivize us to do a ton of outdoor activity.  All of which was starting to leave my feet feeling a bit itchy.  Fortunately, two things happened at the same time that let me scratch the itch.  First, Kristine offered to let me set the family agenda for Father's Day (I asked for an afternoon hike).  Second, the weather mostly cooperated (more on that later).

Here's our driving route.  We've found that activities in north Derbyshire work well on Sundays after church.  The girls get some snacks at church and run around with their friends for a while.  This makes them more amenable to a 30 or 45 minute car ride.  The extra distance somehow isn't as noticeable on the way home as it is on the way out.  The glitch we didn't factor in on this trip was a small voice piping up from the carseat, "I need to use the toilet," just as we came into Ashbourne.  Rather than spend time trying to find a public toilet, we told Clare we were almost there and asked her to wait.  Fortunately the gamble paid off.  It didn't take us long to get through Ashbourne to Dove Dale, and Clare was fine waiting.


I didn't turn RunKeeper on before we lost mobile phone reception, so had to construct the route afterwards.  Here's a reasonable approximation of what we did.  Just under 2 miles.


I mentioned that the weather mostly cooperated.  The drive from St. Giles to Dove Dale involved reasonable levels of mist and the windshield wipers operating.  That meant everybody had raincoats on when we started the hike (unlike our Tissington hike, this excursion included both raincoats and boots all around).



The directions from Derbyshire Walks with Children (DWWC) had us going on the side of the stream that is not paved or level.  This is the closest that my girls have ever come to off-road walking.  It was fun, but it also meant we went pretty slow while Clare and Charis found their way over the uneven terrain.


It didn't take Elise long to decide that if the path was uneven, then maybe walking off the path would be even more fun.  She spent a good bit of this hike on the hillside.




Once she found her footing, Charis was off and running.


Clare, on the other hand, was pretty tough to keep focused on the walk.  She thought it was much more fun to pick up stones and throw them into the water.


Once we were off the "rugged" part of the path, both Elise and Charis spent most of their time running.  During our house-hunting trip last December, Kristine and I wondered if the girls might need some help adjusting to the 3/4 mile walk each way to school.  We thought maybe she could start by driving part way and then walking the rest of the way.  Clare's still growing into these long walks, but I shake my head and laugh at the memory of that discussion as I watch Elise and Charis now.



Clare was ready for a rest by the time we got to these steps at about the 1 mile mark.  That meant Kristine had extra work to do climbing the steps.


This rocky area had a quasi-summit where Kristine and the girls got this hero shot in.  The path led downhill both ways from this area so we decided to turn around and head back.  We were about an hour out from the car, and there were enough people on the trail that Kristine and I were both feeling a bit claustrophobic.



The trail was crowded, but the river that we walked beside was truly beautiful.


I mentioned Elise's commitment on this hike to not walking on the primary path if she could avoid it?  By this point Charis was following her example.


This point in the trail is well off the route charted in DWWC.  That's my excuse for not knowing the story behind the log with coins stuck into its cracks.  I'm guessing it's something like a wishing well.  The girls were fascinated.


And, despite my attempt at stern instructions, managed to pull several of the coins out of their cracks.


If you squint at the photo below, you'll see the crowds of people on the trail.  That was the only downside of this particular hike.  Kristine and I both have strong mental models that hiking involves a decent amount of solitude.  You don't get that at Dove Dale.  That said, we never had to throw elbows to get through.


The only place the crowds presented a logistical challenge was at the stepping stones.  We had to cross these stones because we wanted to walk back to the car on the paved track.  Considering how many people were waiting to cross the stones, folks did a decent job of being polite and taking turns while groups of four or five families crossed each direction.  Neither Elise or Charis fell in, although Charis did need a little help getting across a couple of the larger gaps between stones.


Clare needed quite a bit of help.  She had the time of her life being swung from stone to stone.  The fellow behind Kristine had to cross three times.  He carried his toddler over to his wife (who had crossed in front of us with another child), then went back and returned with a stroller.  I'm thankful for Kristine's willingness to carry Clare on her back.


Elise, realizing we were at the end of her chances to walk off the beaten path, asked if she could take one more climb up the rocks.  Charis was hot on her trail, and Clare insisted on going along.


Here's the hero shot.


That's Dove Dale.  Lovely walk, but way too many people.

Monday, 2 June 2014

Onset of the accent

The girls made a couple of videos this afternoon for their classes in the US.  For me, this is a fun record of how their accents are changing.  All three girls adopt varying degrees of UK accents when talking with peers or adults over here.  These video messages to their American friends show how the accent is becoming increasingly subconscious.  We shall see (or hear) how they converse when we make our trip to the US in late July.

Here's Elise (who steadfastly insists that her UK accent is put on, but shows a decidedly UK cadence here).


Charis (like the video, her accent is consistently a hybrid)


and Clare